Your marriage won’t work out. The two of you started off as a couple cheating! You did it once you will do it again. Then he gave you an ultimatum…choose him or your husband. You chose him. Good call…but not really.
Also, two people who aren’t even close to financial stability shouldn’t be getting married. All that money you spent could have been saved for bills, food, moving? Then the first thing you do is start trying to have a baby!?!?!? ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?! That is so dumb. You will just be on the track to sucking up the money I pay to taxes. Thanks.