• To all women of childbearing age.

    by  • March 25, 2012 • * Safe for Work *, Advice • 1 Comment

    Don’t try to hang on to a man by getting pregnant. Men don’t stay for the children. They stay because they love the woman. You might be able to get him to marry you and he might follow through but know that sooner or later he will think and feel himself trapped. That’s sad. Why would a woman even want a man in those terms? nobody is a winner in a situation like that. You might get a ring in your finger and his last name but his heart and soul will be somewhere else. In the end you will be another divorce stats. Keep in mind that even in the best of situations when a couple are very much in love with each other and they both without coercion from the other but by a mutually agreed upon decision do get married, the chances of staying married for longer that five years are rather small.

    It shouldn’t take a couple longer than a year of dating to decide that they really do want to spend the rest of their lives together.

    So ladies, do yourselves a favor and avoid a lot of tears, disappointment, frustration and heartache down the road. You really do want a man to marry you because he loves you dearly and can’t face living his life without you rather than a man who married you because you got pregnant and it’s the right thing to do. There is a big difference between the two.

    One Response to To all women of childbearing age.

    1. faceless
      March 25, 2012 at 9:33 pm

      Being a guy myself, I find this to be rather sad, in the mildest of terms. Whatever happened to true love? Since when did people give up fighting for it when life gets hard? What’s the statistic? More than 50% of marriages end in a divorce?

      I wish more people saw the value and the worth in true, lasting love. It’s the beauty of a life together, and creating more lives through that love, teaching them, too, to love in such a pure and meaningful manner, especially when things get tough, because that is the very definition of love.

      *sigh* Perhaps someday, both men and women will wake up and love as they were created to rather than use each other to fulfill their own selfish desires. Perhaps…

      A guy can dream, can’t he?

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