Don’t try to hang on to a man by getting pregnant. Men don’t stay for the children. They stay because they love the woman. You might be able to get him to marry you and he might follow through but know that sooner or later he will think and feel himself trapped. That’s sad. Why would a woman even want a man in those terms? nobody is a winner in a situation like that. You might get a ring in your finger and his last name but his heart and soul will be somewhere else. In the end you will be another divorce stats. Keep in mind that even in the best of situations when a couple are very much in love with each other and they both without coercion from the other but by a mutually agreed upon decision do get married, the chances of staying married for longer that five years are rather small.
It shouldn’t take a couple longer than a year of dating to decide that they really do want to spend the rest of their lives together.
So ladies, do yourselves a favor and avoid a lot of tears, disappointment, frustration and heartache down the road. You really do want a man to marry you because he loves you dearly and can’t face living his life without you rather than a man who married you because you got pregnant and it’s the right thing to do. There is a big difference between the two.