• bi curious

    by  • March 17, 2012 • * Safe for Work *, Sex • 2 Comments

    For about 3 years I have been curious about girls. I have dated guys and would only date guys. But I have always thought that it would be fun to mess around with a girl. I have a friend who is a guy and we hang with another friend and she is a girl. She is bi and said she would do stuff with me but every time we hang out her and I always chicken out. She has gone all the way before her and I have talked about it a few times but just can’t stop chickening out. I really want to make a move but i’m scared I won’t be good enough and she won’t want to. What should I do?

    2 Responses to bi curious

    1. A girl
      March 17, 2012 at 11:41 pm

      Don’t worry about being good enough, or chickening out. Sleeping with another girl the first time is scary… It usually involves a mixture of alcohol and drugs! LOL!

      The first time I slept with a girl, I was sooo scared! I didn’t know what to do, but I am so glad I did it anyhow. I know I was partially scared because I wasn’t sure what sleeping with a girl would signify. Was I bi? Was I still (mostly) straight? I didn’t want a relationship with a girl, but always thought they were pretty.

      Years later, I have been seeing the same girl on and off for 4 years. The same length of time I have been seeing my boyfriend. They both know about each other, and are understanding. No, he doesn’t want a threesome! 😉 And she doesn’t want a relationship. It is great. Although months can go by when I don’t see the girl, she is still there when I want to play.

      Life is short, but it is wide! Give it a try!!! 🙂

    2. Rose
      March 18, 2012 at 12:41 am

      Next time you are drinking together tell her you are interested, but you can’t make a move or you don’t know how. She should take it from there. 🙂

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