• I can take a hint. I just don’t like to give up.

    by  • March 7, 2012 • * Safe for Work *, Yearning for You • 4 Comments

    Since I met you, I have felt some kind of connection between us that I can’t explain. Usually when I meet someone, I can tell immediately if they are going to be important in my life. And I had this feeling with you. I am not a romantic person; but I would definitely say that I am infatuated with you. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about you; as much as I would like to. I know you said this thing between us isn’t going to work. I know it isn’t. And I know I shouldn’t have made a move on you. But I don’t regret it.

    I have to know this much. Did you ever like me or did you just like the attention? I think I know the answer to this already but I would feel better if I could just hear the truth from you. I understand why you wouldn’t want to start anything with me. It isn’t smart. But do you think things would be different if I were single? I have already given up on the notion of being with you, but I would really like if we could at least be friends. I think if I had some answers maybe I can just finally move on and stop obsessing over you.

    4 Responses to I can take a hint. I just don’t like to give up.

    1. mmm hello
      March 7, 2012 at 5:14 pm

      did you just ask if things would be different if you were single?
      no offense… but mm doh!

    2. that girl
      March 7, 2012 at 5:44 pm

      You know what I think…I think you do care and you can’t seem to let go because you obviously know that there is something there…an immovable connection. I think you probably know the answer to the question…and it’s probably yes things would be different if you were single. That person probably would be more than ready to start something with you. That person probably really liked or even cared for you, but you never made a move in your heart to do what you know both of you wanted. So that other person is forced to just be friends with you…because you are the only one that can really do anything about it.

      Maybe they are having just as hard a time trying not to think about you in their mind all the time…with no success. Maybe they wished that you didn’t regret your move, but moved further forward than ever. Maybe they are just sitting around wondering when you are going to be honest with yourself about how you truly feel.

      The bottom line is that person will probably be forced to be just friends with you, because what else can they do? You chose to move on and not change your relationship status…once the dynamics of a friendship changes it’s really hard to go back… if not impossible. There will always be that bond…that connection and they’ll probably always love you…without you even knowing.

      From someone who is in a similar situation….

    3. Samantha
      April 7, 2012 at 5:53 am

      It finally happened. And we had the most amazing night together. If someone is on your mind all the time, there is a reason for it. Don’t give up on them

    4. Rose
      April 7, 2012 at 1:29 pm

      I’m so happy for you. 🙂

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