• How bad is it

    by  • February 27, 2012 • * Safe for Work *, Confession • 1 Comment

    that I would rather people think I’m a bitch, than know the truth that I’m just a nice and really shy girl? Pretty bad ay….

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    One Response to How bad is it

    1. DC
      February 27, 2012 at 1:34 pm

      It’s not bad at all. Saying things are good or bad is being judgmental and it’s just as injurious to your self as doing it to others.

      But, since you bring it up… Why are you a bitch to others? I would see it as a defense mechanism and my last wife was like that. It was a persona she wore to keep the world at bay so the real person wouldn’t be hurt. So I would advise to understand your motivation for presenting that persona to the world and then, when you understand it, ask your self if it’s necessary or worth it. Modify as needed. One of the best lessons you can learn is that you can’t change others but you can completely change yourself.



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