• 3 Responses to Let’s make our own definition,

    1. .
      February 23, 2012 at 10:40 am

      Your words remind me very much of something similar, about definitions, I had posted recently. And while I don’t even assume this to be a response (he doesn’t read here), I feel compelled to leave you my ten cents regardless.
      Here is the thing: How do you know that you two will never be one definition? You’ll never be a success story?
      Appears to me you haven’t even tried – since you said that you are not willing to find out. How do you know you would lose him/her? This in itself makes no sense at all!
      Why not at least give it a chance and who knows, you may very well be wrong in your assumption. How can this be love if you fear to lose someone by expressing love, and maybe even live love? Would it really be the love that you imagine in your heart and soul, if he/she were to let go of you by knowing how you truly feel? If he/she would because your love – forgive me for saying this – but it would be your blessing! Which pain is greater, is there a measure? The pain of endless yearning, wondering, wishing, hoping yet holding back – or is it the pain of truth, maybe loss and having to begin anew? Why do people fear truth?
      I wish, I knew but don’t think that I will ever understand.
      Think about my words, they are from experience and from my heart with nothing but the best wishes to you!

    2. that girl
      February 23, 2012 at 12:14 pm

      I so heartily agree with everything that “.” said on here. Go and discuss it with the person you care about. I told that one person, because of this site and so glad I did. At least I am discovering the truth between us, but if I hadn’t I would have allowed fear to keep me from knowing the truth. It’s totally worth it to talk, but totally painful not to face to face and it causes even more hurt that couldn’t have been solved by just talking it through. Didn’t mean to sound like I was judging, but just something to think about. Wishing you too the greatest happiness. =)

    3. catherine
      February 28, 2012 at 12:59 am

      I know exactly how you feel. Go for it while you have the chance. It’s too late for me. But it’s gotta work out for one of us. Good Luck:)

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