• Tell me

    by  • February 12, 2012 • * Safe for Work *, Advice, Short -n- Sweet • 5 Comments

    What do you do when the few really good friends you have, and I mean really good, start changing….and you don’t like who they’re becoming?

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    5 Responses to Tell me

    1. Ash
      February 12, 2012 at 6:53 pm

      Honesty is the best route. True friends tell how it is and they are the ones (if they are good friends) to keep us in check.

      Seems like you are trying to tell me something here…are you?




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    2. Easy
      February 12, 2012 at 7:24 pm

      You buckle up and tell them how you feel. If they are really good friends, there shouldn’t be anything you can not talk about. Yes, even if truth hurts sometimes. If the bond is strong, it will be even stronger afterwards. If not, it never was that really good anyway. It’s worth it, I promise.




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    3. Lady
      February 12, 2012 at 8:13 pm

      this is going to happen so many times throughout life… you have to just learn to stick with your own choices and not let them change anything about you. doesn’t mean you have to stop hanging out with them or talking to them, but maybe you won’t want to quite as much… and as long as you give yourself the chance, you can make new close friends… but the key words there are “give yourself the chance” because its so easy to hold yourself back with or without realizing it.

      good luck!




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    4. Lady
      February 12, 2012 at 8:14 pm

      p.s. you can’t change anyone, no matter what you think, no matter how hard you try, no matter what you do…. in the end it will ALWAYS be up to that person to change on their own accord or it wont work out after a while




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    5. melissa
      February 12, 2012 at 10:04 pm

      You either accept them whole heartily or move ON. You might not like who they become, but growth is a natural part of life and sometimes you don’t see the reasons behind their change. it might be because of a new girlfriend, or a life altering event, or college or a job…but people are made to evolve. in fact, you’re probably changing. if you’re both changing, you might develop different paths. you need to accept that and move on. trust me their not the only one changing.




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