A lot of people talk about how they are looking for the perfect person. But are you the perfect “you” you can be?
If you met this “perfect” person tomorrow, would you be satisfied with how they would view you? Or would you find yourself saying things like
“i don’t normally look like this, i just haven’t been to the gym in a while…”
“my house is usually a lot cleaner…i’ve just been really busy”
“i’ll get my dream job one day, but i make decent money where i am now”
Or do you want to do a few things first?
Like go to school
Get a job
Get your dream job
Get in shape
Pay off some debt
Make new friends
Find a better place to live
Learn a new language
Find a new hobby
Call your mother
Learn how to cook
What’s the rush to find that “perfect” person, when you are the most important out of everyone? why spend so much time searching, when you could spend that time focusing on making your own life better? love happens when you least expect it.
so stop worrying if they will text you back. why they didnt call, or who that other person in their facebook pictures are.
they have no responsibilty to make you happy in this world..that’s up to you. so lose that last 10 pounds. start searching for your dream job. call your mother. and relax.
don’t look for love. beg for love. or suffer for love. do what you love, and you will find someone who loves the same thing.