Everyone is here for you. I know right now it seems like everyone is just pecking at you like chickens in the yard after grain. What you see as meddling is nothing more than care and concern. And the ones who don’t peck at you? They also care and are concerned, they just express it differently.
When the time comes, remember that and call them as you see fit. They’ll be there for you without judgements or recriminations. Because they care and are concerned. They want to see you happy, every last one of them. And, frankly, right now that’s not what they see no matter how much you protest otherwise.