• The truth!!

    by  • January 31, 2012 • * Safe for Work *, Positive Vibes • 2 Comments

    I’m 23
    I live in a nice house
    I have many friends
    I have a nice face
    I have a reasonably good figure(!)
    I have nice lips and breasts
    I have brown eyes that people admire all the time!
    I have an honours bachelors degree
    I laugh a lot
    I have many friends
    I drive a cool car
    I have a good job
    I am much younger than other people at my career stage
    I party a lot with fun people
    I go on 2 dates most weeks
    I usually have a boy that likes me
    I know people admire me

    But….
    (and I know this is silly!)

    Every day I worry I am fat
    I miss my family that live far away
    I over analyse EVERYTHING
    I have a constant negative inner monologue
    I feel like I am inadequate
    I feel like a fraud in work and think people will realise I am not actually very competent
    I say “I’m concentrating on my career” when people ask me about boyfriends
    I hate my teeth
    I recognize insecurities in others instantly
    I try to please others
    I wear differant masks in front of different people
    I push away guys I might like because I am so afraid of being hurt
    I feel lonely

    BUT!!!

    The first list is much longer, and I am trying to think positive from now on! I know people looking in at me think I am better than I think I am myself…

    Any advice on how to think positive? 🙂

    2 Responses to The truth!!

    1. Fg
      January 31, 2012 at 6:12 pm

      Chin up!!

    2. M
      February 1, 2012 at 4:17 am

      if the first list is longer than the second, you are well on your way to positive thoughts! whenever you have negative thoughts of the second list, just refer back to the first one and think “hey, I wrote this about myself, and it is completely accurate!” don’t let your doubts interfere with the beautiful confidence that wants to show itself to the world!

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