• Do you really love me?

    by  • November 27, 2011 • * Safe for Work *, Love - Pure and Simple • 3 Comments

    Dear ______,
    I’m not sure if I can believe that you actually love me, simply because you do not love yourself. You can’t love someone until you love yourself. It’s as easy as that. But you always say you love me, and at one point in time I felt it, but now I don’t.

    and that scares me.


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    3 Responses to Do you really love me?

    1. myriam
      November 27, 2011 at 8:01 pm

      i know right i have a boyfriend who say i love you ahaha : ) but i like it


    2. T
      November 28, 2011 at 9:07 am

      You don’t have to love yourself to love others. However, if you don’t love yourself then someone else who tries to love you will only get pain in return.

      So yeah. That you must love yourself first to love others is a lie. That you have to love yourself as much as someone you love for them to really feel it and live it? Yes, definitely.


    3. ANEWDAY
      November 28, 2011 at 9:53 am

      I disagree. If you love yourself than it will be possible for you to purely love other people. If you don’t love yourself then how you feel about yourself will in fact project onto other people. For example, if you feel super insecure about everything, then when you get around other people that insecurity will come through and people will have a hard time getting to know you. I believe that loving yourself first is the key to opening up to other relationships, but I do respect other people’s opinions on here: meant for T. =) I think if we all had the same point of view life would be boring. It’s always good to look at different perspectives.

      When you like yourself it shows, and you’ll treat other people the same way you treat yourself. You’ll find it. I had trouble with this one for a while, but it will come with patience and perseverance. =) Best of luck! ANEWDAY



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