To my coworker,
Look, we need to talk. Sure you apologized and I said it was ok. The truth is that it was not and is not ok. I do not appreciate your behavior. I find it absolutely horrible and degrading. I understand you just got out of a relationship but that doesn’t mean you can turn to me. I have never given you any indication that I have feelings for you because I don’t and never have. So what, you decide while you’re sober that you need to talk to me because you’re down. But that’s not what you wanted. You don’t want to just talk to me. You want more. Why else are you turning to me of all people? I didn’t want to believe it but I have to face the truth. You’re not interested in friendship. And you made that pretty clear last night. You drunk texted and called me and left voicemails. If it was just one text or call, fine whatever. But no, you called at least 11 times and texted me just as many until well after midnight. You called me “babe” and “cakes.” And making matters even worse, you were with some of our coworkers at the time.
Do you even understand the position you have put me in? Our coworkers who were with you are going to ask me about this. People talk. And I’m going to be honest because I’m not going to protect your ass from embarrassment or let them think something is going on with us. And let’s not forget that we work with your ex. I hope that if she hears about this, she doesn’t flip out on me for no reason. You also don’t realize that you are now the second person she has been with who has decided to turn to me and probably the 5th or 6th man at our work who has been creepy with me. Congratulations.
Your pissed off and creeped out coworker