I’ve been sitting here trying to convince you that it would be wrong to cheat on your husband. I’ve tried logic and reasoning because I know that if you DO cheat on him it will affect you in a negative way for the rest of your life. You will see yourself as a cheater. You will see yourself as your father, who cheated and left your mother. But so far, nothing has gotten through. You’ve even asked me not to judge you and I’ve told you I only want to be a good friend to you.
But see…here’s the thing…what about the girlfriend? What about her? If you are going to cheat and fuck up your own relationship that is one thing…but that isn’t all that will happen. You will knowingly fuck up somebody else’s relationship, too.
Just because he is flirting with you now and making you finally feel attractive again doesn’t mean you get to fuck over somebody else. Can’t you please put somebody else before your own selfish needs? Put yourself in their shoes? Do you want another woman to fuck you over? Because I truly believe that you would deserve it.
Damn, we are women! We are supposed to protect each other and take care of each other.
You know what? You’re going to get fat and old. And on the off-chance that you don’t get fat, you will ultimately get old. When YOU are old…and wrinkly, and not feeling that attractive…and your husband (or new husband) comes home looking 10 years younger than you (cuz that’s what stupid men do when they age) and he’s got a kick in his step and a sparkle in his eye…just remember. Remember that YOU were once someone’s sparkle in their eye…and you ruined a relationship because you liked the way it made you feel.
I do NOT choose to live my life that way. I want to be proud of my actions. I want to know that I value a relationship so much that I wouldn’t put someone else’s at stake. I want to look at a woman and have them know they can trust me…because trust is all we got in life, baby.
And by breaking their trust, you’re also breaking mine.
That’s all I can say for now.