• Can I get some answers, boys?

    by  • November 7, 2011 • * Safe for Work *, Dating • 5 Comments

    I used to tell myself that i wasn’t in a serious relationship because I didn’t want one. I’m a freshman in college, I wanted to be free. I thought i was the definition of single by choice. But now that I’ve changed my mind, decided I want a best friend that will love me and I will love back possibly forever, I thought the flood of single college boys would come rushing towards me. Of course it hasn’t. All my friends have boyfriends or potentials, why don’t I? Is it because I’m not as skinny as what’s-her-name or because sometimes I wake up too late to straighten my hair? I feel like i don’t even meet guys anywhere and when I do they don’t look at me twice. Gimme some help boys? What can I do to make you like me?

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    5 Responses to Can I get some answers, boys?

    1. Catcher2
      November 7, 2011 at 2:53 pm

      The worst thing you can do is go out of your way to grab their attention, because you are showing a part of yourself that isn’t you, and that’s the BEST thing you can do: just be you. Don’t settle for the first guy who comes around because you’ll just be hurt. Instead, being yourself is the most attractive quality you can possess. Be confident in yourself. As a creation of God, you are beautiful and you deserve a man who can see your beauty: both inside and out. Don’t worry too much about it; Mr. Right will come along in due time, and when he does the journey will definitely be worth the wait and you’ll be glad you didn’t settle. Just hang in there and he will find you. I promise 🙂




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    2. J
      November 7, 2011 at 2:57 pm

      Some of us are like how you used to be. I’m a junior in college and I want nothing to do with a relationship. I never approach girls in a sexual or “hitting-on” manner. It’s not that you are doing anything wrong, some people just have different motives. Also try and put yourself out there more if you really want to find love. It won’t just come to you, you have to find it.




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    3. Bryan
      November 7, 2011 at 3:28 pm

      I would say, you should smile. Its how my best friend and I came to know each other and its part of the reason I fell as hard for her as I have. Its also one of the most undervalued things you can do to get people’s attention.




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    4. Hmmm
      November 7, 2011 at 3:33 pm

      I’m not a boy, but I’ve done some living. You can’t make anybody like you. However…just be yourself with consistency. Keep up your standards and teach people how they can treat you. Invest time in yourself and figure out what you want. Don’t worry about what you’re doing right or not so right. Do what is right for you. Apart from that, be sincere. Have a pleasant character.

      I’m not saying this is simple, but this is what draws quality people to you. I promise. Good luck. : )




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    5. Z
      November 7, 2011 at 6:21 pm

      For me, you have to be straight with me. I don’t have many inhibitions and I love it when I can have a no holds conversation with someone. Anything goes. I want the girl who comes to me for advice, who asks me for help, who curls up and watches a movie with me, and stays up all night just to talk when we have class in the morning. To get noticed by guys like me, you have to become my best friend that I never want to let go.




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