• Remind Yourself

    by  • July 28, 2011 • * Safe for Work *, Advice, Letting Go • 1 Comment

    Dear Me:

    I know you are afraid of not finding the one, I know you are afraid of being alone for the rest of your life. But keep reminding yourself of the reasons you tried leaving him time and time again before you let him pull you back in. He finally decided to let you go and to just be friends… it was his decision this time and you need to let him stick to this decision.

    And if he tries to pull you back in again:

    Remind yourself that he doesn’t approve of your friends or family.

    Remind yourself that he has betrayed your trust in the past and will do so again and again.

    Remind yourself that you will never understand or accept his lifestyle.

    Remind yourself that although the sex got better, he didn’t really turn you on the way a lover should. You wanted it to be that way, you wanted passion but something seemed to be missing… remind yourself of that.

    Remind yourself that unless he makes a complete turnaround which includes no more drugs, getting a job, and is able to quit sucking his sister’s (a.k.a surrogate mother)titty that you two will never work out.

    Remind yourself on how much misery he has caused you during the 9 months you were together.

    Remind yourself that this is for the best and let him be your best friend.

    One Response to Remind Yourself

    1. Angel
      July 28, 2011 at 12:52 pm


      You did good today, you said no when he asked you to be friends with benefits. Because deep down you know that was all you were to him all along and it wouldn’t change things. He claims he is so in-love with you but if you let this happen he will happily go along living the lifestyle that is easy for him instead of trying to make a commitment.

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