Don’t you see what this is doing to me? We’ve been bestfriends for over 5 years now, through thick & thin always there. no matter what. period.
Until….HE came along. From the beginning I tried to tell you something about him just wasn’t right. I assumed you would trust me seeing how I was your BESTFRIEND. But you said “You’re just being jealous. chill out.”
Now here we are 3 years later & you’re still in the same situation except worse.
Can’t you see he’s controlling you? He calls every minute of every day. If you don’t respond to a text almost seconds within the time it was sent you best believe your phone rings. I can’t have a conversation with you without him being in it somehow. You stop talking to me for periods at a time because I told you you could do better.
Your family DOES NOT LIKE HIM. Your mom calls me & the rest of your family crying. She’s so stressed because we all see what he’s doing to you. Emotionally. Im afraid if this goes on any longer it could become physical. Or has it? Ive seen his temper. I know what he’s capable of. But do you know what the worst part of it is? You dont believe me. You dont believe anyone. You say Im jealous, or he’s not as bad as everyone makes him out to be or you dont want to talk to me at the moment.
But you know what? Ive finally come to terms with this… When you don’t have any friends, any family. Who are you going to turn to? Him? What can he do for you? He doesnt listen. He doesn’t care. He’s using you. Why can’t you see this? When he gives you the untimatum “Get married or Get gone” what will you say? Yes? If so Im sorry but I will not be attending. I love you & you are just like my own sister but you’ve let someone who you barely knew come between us.