Yes you are. Please stop with that. Everytime I mention that I can’t be there, you give me the death talk.
He’s dying, you’re dying, I’m dying, everybody I love is dying. I’m not a bad person for having high priority things going on during the event, but I will bring shame upon my family for not being there. They will DIE because that’s what people do. They die when I don’t get to see them.
That’s not how it works! I love them as much as you do, but I can’t just drop my life and go there on such short notice. No I am not a disappointment or an antisocial person for not wanting to go right now. Do you even know what antisocial means?? I just can’t go. Please stop trying to guilt trip me into going when there’s no way that I can. It’s breaking my heart that you talk to people about me like I’m some spoiled child who hates her family. I’m not, I swear.