• 4,000+

    by  • June 21, 2011 • * Safe for Work *, Moving On • 3 Comments

    Dear Babe,

    4,000 and a few miles lay between us now. You said you wanted me forever, that I was your one and only. But now you’re in a different country, living a different life, without me. How does that feel to you? I’m sure it can’t feel as awful as it feels to me.

    You said we were made for each other and distance nor time mattered. If there was a will, there was a way. What happened to those words, spoken to me not even a week ago? Did you forget me already? Or had you decided before you left that I was just an “American fling?” Either way, the hurt stings.

    Now I am left to try and move on. 8 or 10 years will come and go, and we will still not be together and married, with kids on the way. Like you promised. What do I do from here? Should I move on quickly or face my fears and be upset and emotional? It’s a hard test of strength, staying here without you.


    I am moving on.

    The Lost Love <3

    3 Responses to 4,000+

    1. Me
      June 22, 2011 at 5:43 am

      Let yourself weaken and embrace the pain. Live and learn from it. Don’t let this person tear apart your everything. You can be beautiful and strong if you allow yourself to grow from the pain.

    2. thinking
      June 22, 2011 at 10:38 am

      I agree with Me feel your pain embrace it and then move on. The only way we can heal is by acknowledging that we were hurt. All the best.

    3. Karissa
      June 22, 2011 at 10:17 pm

      Oh dear, I am so sorry. The man I love is in Scotland and I in America. It sucks, it really does. I am struggling with what to do about our future. But just know everything happens for a reason, I’ve never found anything else to be more true. Best of luck.

    Leave a Reply