he’s just not that into you
by admin • February 20, 2011 • Advice, Love - Pure and Simple • 54 Comments
If he’s not calling you.
If he’s not texting you.
If he’s looking for other girls to date.
If he’s not taking you out on dates.
If he’s not asking you to be is girlfriend.
Then it’s because he doesn’t want to.
Even if he’s kissing you.
Even if he’s letting you sleep in his bed with him.
Even if he’s cuddling you at night.
Even if he gets jealous when you talk about other guys.
If he wanted to be with you, then he would be. But he’s not.
And he’s a fool.
I know these rules aren’t just black and white, there is gray area in between. But how do you know for sure if he really isn’t interested. I am not sure if my gut is right because, I always assume the worst. I don’t wanna ask him and scare him off.When we are together everything is great, but when we are apart, I rarely hear from him. I know this is vague, but I don’t wanna sit around waiting to see what he wants, and miss other opportunities. I really do like him though. He is smart, funny, attractive, respectful, nice…How do you know exactly what his intentions are, and if he really is interested in a relationship?
i’m in the same boat, everything is still pretty new but how do you really know if you don’t ask?
i was on the same boat as both of ye! Simple answer. ask! I did, and i may not have got the answer i wanted but i got over it and him and moved on. Life’s too short to sit wondering ‘what if?’
i was gonna ask, but i wanted to in person. But unfortunately I never got to, he just kinda stopped talking to me. He would answer me when i text him, but i realized he was being nice. I deleted his number so i could give him the opportunity to talk to me first, but i havent heard from him and its been over a month.