Click here for a letter.I don’t know what it is about you
That makes me catch my breathe every time you look at me
The nerves that make me shake
Being near your body gives mine this magnetic pull towards you.
What it is about you?
I’ve been in love. I’ve been hurt from it, and I’ve felt like floating on a cloud from it.
I’ve been there. I’ve felt crazy feelings before. And I’ve had my share of “crushes” – but this, this is no childish crush.
I never fall for anyone like this. I’m so guarded. Too guarded. With SO many expectations because I learned that’s what will protect me.
I don’t know what it is about you
But I can’t find a flaw.
Because even your flaws to others, just make you an even more beautiful person to me. You are such a REAL person. You have passion in your soul. So gentle and so powerful at the same time. Your humility is stunning. You are truly a man in every sense of the word. You are exactly the kind of person I want in my life.
Is this what it is about you?
Is that what it is that makes me want to knock down every wall I’ve created. I’ll risk it all and never think twice.
And God your eyes! The only thing that could make your eyes more perfect would be me inside of them, us together.
But here comes reality. You have someone else. Although whenever we are together (innocently of course) you can’t deny what we both know we feel. I don’t need to ask if you feel the same because I already know you do. And out of whatever reason, if you feel she is what you want in your life, then so be it. I can respect that. But please be honest with yourself, don’t deny the truth. Don’t be scared to lose the comfort and go out on this crazy limb with me. Maybe we’ll fall flat on our asses, but the thought of what it very well could be is amazing and I would take that leap with you.
I’ve never met such a perfect person for me.
That’s exactly what is is about you…
Wow! I could have written this exact letter!
I have written one of those for a certain girl…
so beautiful and real. I completely feel this way ..
This is so unbelievably true.. I love this!
that was truely amazing, i want you to know that this moved me because i too am dealing with this. i hope it worked out for you!
I feel the same way. This explains my feelings that i never thought I could explain.
what a whore. if he doesnt leave his gf for you, then you don’t really mean anything to him. When a guy wants to be with someone, he will find the way. Girls that mess with guys with girlfriends have no respect for themselves. They will never leave their gf for you. sucks to be you.
Close enough
I feel like I wrote this letter. Thank you for writing this, it was very moving.
Beautiful (:
I wish I could take what you said and shove it in his head.
this was truly very very beautiful. i hope he realizes what he’s missing before it’s too late.
It is beautiful..until that last paragraph it then becomes pathetic
let fate run its course, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side
Wow. If I didn’t already know for sure I didn’t write this… I’d think for sure that I had written it… except that I would never forgive myself if I wrote it… sigh…
Wow, I have definitely written this letter to a certain someone. I have it with me, a lot. I’ve been trying decide if I should just take a chance and give it to him…
I have written and sent this letter before. After 4 years, he decided to take the chance with me. Keep your head up high and send this letter. You have no idea what good it can bring to your life.
This was beautifully written; however, the ending was upsetting. I understand you have feelings for him, but please oh please move on since he has someone else. I don’t feel sorry for the writer or the man. I feel sorry for his girlfriend.
Wow these are the exact words from my heart….how can someone express what I feel in such a true way.
just, WOW.
I am amazed. This is so good.
A great writer, no doubt.
You lost me at the “But here comes the reality” part. Everything above that…I know what that’s like. Thank you for this.
It feels as if you’ve walked around in my head and my heart and beautifully expressed things which I do not have the diction to say.
This letter is filled with raw emotion.I wouldn’t want to idenify myself as the gf
I as well feel for the gf
This sounds exactly like something my Ex-best friend would have wrote to my husband when she was trying to destroy my marriage & steal him away from me. Girls like this need to learn that there is nothing lovely or romantic or beautiful about being a homewrecker.
This is really something I relate with.. If only I got to him first, you know? Maaann..
Relatable and a great piece.
my words right infront of me.
oh wow. except the last paragraph… this is me and him. totally.
This was beautiful till the end. Then all the beauty denigrated.
Why go after someones man. If he has issues with said gf, he will break it off. You need to keep your pathetic arse away, to mad I dont know the gf, will give you the beat down that you deserve
Wow..i feel the SAME way…<3 heatache sucks.
Heartache sucks, I could have wrote this. I had everything perfect, and threw it away because I was afraid to jump. Then I found out I already fell.
I let him leave, and he never really left and she is a bitch, she lies to me, she feels threatened by me. Its not with out reason unless were both drunk though xD
I understand why you wrote this. You needed to express your feelings, but would never say these words out loud because you would not do anything to hurt this person that you care for. Actions speak louder than words and no one can tell you it’s wrong to feel the way you do. It has taken me a long time to realize this, and as painful as this may be, if he truly wanted to be with you, he WOULD. So, work on letting go and open your beautiful heart, and soon, you will find someone who is much more perfect for you especially because he will be only yours.
This letter pretty much read my mind. I so, so understand.
I was JUST about to write something like this. I can’t even begin to describe how much I related to this.
Somebody’s FEELINGS are not pathetic. Whoever says those kinds of things has felt that way before, and that’s why they dog on it. Just saying.
Beautifully said.
I stumbled upon this letter and it is what made me fall in love with this website. I felt an instant connection to the words that were written on the screen and began reading more. Thanks for posting!
I almost thought that I’d written this myself for half a second. It’s just so relatable, and beautifully written
Beautiful :’)
i feel d same. i said d same and every word i wrote made me cry, i hope he never goes through the same situation, cuz u gotta be really strong for it!
This is the perfect message that I would love to tell someone right now and just do not have the guts to do it. There is that one person whom when we are together its great but there’s the girlfriend whom they are no longer in love with but are still together because both of them are too scared to walk away after so many years! Thank you for this and letting me know that someone feels the same way!
I know that exact feeling… And I was in that exact situation. It’s so hard. :’(
you’ve pretty much put into words a jumble of what i’ve been feeling, which i couldn’t even explain to myself. i hope this all works out for you, i know how horrible this is!
This is too perfect for me… thanks!
You sound like a friend of a friend (ok ex bf who I still wish I was with); at least what I am sensing is going on now at about the time you wrote this letter you’d have felt this misery. I still do too. It doesn’t go away even after 20 years, even after you are so close to being in a place where you can see how it would go; its not going to soon and he is with another who doesn’t seem that into him but he is head over heels for her…and it sucks. Even though I told him I felt like I used to for him and he made a “special” fb photo for me in response as his profile pic….if u r the one I think ur sorry i can’t wish you good luck….but if ur likely someone totally different then hope things go your way…..
wow omg wow My jaw Dropped when I read this I have been writing letters like this for the past couple of moths! I know exactly how you feel cus I am going through this too the part “And out of whatever reason, if you feel she is what you want in your life, then so be it. I can respect that. But please be honest with yourself, don’t deny the truth.” I just talked to the person with the whole respect thing and yet how he always wants more cus she is never enough! wow I am just shocked
Put yourself in the gf’s place. Would u want to be there?
You make a good point, ANEWDAY. My husband left me for another woman, and when I read this letter, I wondered immediately if she wrote it for him.
jennyjube, how awful. I’m so sorry that had to happen to you, and want you to realize that it wasn’t you it was him. Never forget how beautiful you are as a woman and that you deserve the best…someone who is committed. I don’t even know you, but I’ll be praying for you.
this letter easily could have been written by me to the man that i love. these feelings caused me so much pain and so much doubt for a good long while, but don’t listen to the negative comments that have been left. we just got married and every minute of every day has been the wonder that i knew it could be. it took time and struggle, but it was worth it
Please send this. It would mean so much, show so much courage and prove that you’d do anything for him. Sure, you might “ruin” things. If you have nothing to lose, how can you possibly ever win?
This is beautifully…. perfect.
I know exactly how this feels..
beautiful.