• Boys?

    by  • November 1, 2010 • Dating, Frustration, Love - Pure and Simple, To You, Yearning • 5 Comments

    Dear boys: can you answer any of these?

    Why is the chase so important, and right after you get what you want a hook up, a one night stand or even a girl has fallen for you do you go from sweetest perfect guy to dick? I don’t understand.

    Why is it so hard to like a girl because of her personality not how big her boobs are or how pretty she is?

    Why do the “nice girls” get the shaft?

    Why do you constantly break girls hearts then act like it was no big deal?

    Why can’t you learn to share your emotions even just a little so we don’t think we are alone?

    Why don’t you understand we have emotions, too?

    Why do you insist on texting us everyday, then one day change your mind?

    Why must we do all the “work” at starting a relationship or conversation?

    Why must you all repeatedly be the same?

    One last question
    How many guys would rather have a movie night with a girl than a night out drinking? Anyone?

    -Females everywhere

    5 Responses to Boys?

    1. A nice girl
      November 1, 2010 at 12:49 am

      I have this hard to shake, idealistic, optimistic belief that people are inherently good, despite all my hard evidence, formal education, and personal knowledge that speaks to the direct opposite. I can turn it off in certain situations or when I sense insincerity, but when I have feelings for someone it’s nearly impossible to turn off. So, that’s why I follow the same patterns of behavior.

    2. john
      November 1, 2010 at 4:33 am

      News flash honey “nice guys” get the shaft too because all the girls are too busy chasing assholes around. If everyone would go for who they needed and not who they wanted the world would be a better place. Unfortunately attraction doesn’t work that way. There is simply nothing rational about it.

    3. oops
      November 1, 2010 at 8:12 am

      hi i wrote this and that ending shouldn’t be that way…
      like the females everywhere part shouldn’t be in the middle just saying

    4. A nice guy.
      November 1, 2010 at 3:16 pm

      I have the same question for females everywhere. Why do I always get the shaft? I know I may not look like that model on the abercrombie bags, but I will treat you like you deserve to be treated.

    5. David
      November 1, 2010 at 4:58 pm

      I am a guy and none of these descriptions fit me. Also lots of girls like me and I’m not gay. The issue is with motives not how “nice” you are. Most “nice” guys are rejected by girls because they still just want sex, but are too passive-aggressive to get it. You need to find a guy who cares more about relationships than getting some. Trust me, they’re out there.

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