• Personality VS. Looks

    by  • August 30, 2010 • Acceptance, Love - Pure and Simple, Self-Esteem • 5 Comments

    Dear world, I’ll really never understand why anyone cares about how a person looks. I realize that it’s important to be healthy, but is it really necessary to be “the most beautiful person on this planet?” I honestly could date the most unattractive person in this world, if I was truly in love with their personality. Maybe it is because since I’m overweight that I realize that no one will ever love me for my looks, that I cherish the personality so much. I feel like I’m a good person. I care about others. I’m a good friend. I feel like I’m worthy of being loved but I just hate having to lower my standards because I feel like I’ll never be good enough for anyone. I’m currently losing weight now, and when I do, I won’t even pay the slightest bit of attention to the people that ignore me now. Even after I become healthier, the personality will still be the most important quality to me. I wish other people thought this way too…

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    5 Responses to Personality VS. Looks

    1. Ashley
      August 30, 2010 at 5:50 pm

      You aren’t the only one out there that feels this way. Keep hope, someday there will a person who loves you just for you, regardless of what you look like.

      They do exist, and they are waiting to find you and love you and be loved by you.




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    2. Will
      August 30, 2010 at 6:28 pm

      If you feel beautiful on the inside, then it will radiate to the outside! Don’t despair, you are on the right track getting healthy and accepting yourself as you are right now. Be grateful and confident and you will find love (or maybe it will find you).




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    3. Elise
      November 2, 2010 at 10:17 pm

      Inner beauty beats outer beauty any day. Physical beauty is so overrated and truly worthless if the person is a monster inside.
      Believe me. I met a physically gorgeous monster a year ago. My heart is shattered. Oh! it will heal but this kind soul will never trust so blindly again.




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    4. Honest Abe
      November 2, 2010 at 11:14 pm

      Personality lasts until Alzheimers sets in. Looks go seriously south at 37. Find a soulmate who sees the big picture. You’re intelligent, thoughtful, and caring, and I bet you are a better dinner companion than Katy Perry.




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    5. Healing Heart
      February 6, 2011 at 2:12 pm

      I feel the same way. I’m told by many people that I’m beautiful, so I suppose I am, but my boyfriend is by no means “good looking” and I’m okay with that. I fell in love with his personality, not his looks. No many how many people tell either of us that I’m out of his league, nothing will change my mind, because he is the sweetest guy I know. (:




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