• Desperate Housewife

    by  • August 30, 2010 • Cheating, Frustration, Lost Love, Love - Pure and Simple, Marriage • 4 Comments

    We’ve been married for a lot of years. I realize the sparks have faded, but I feel like nothing more than your roommate, or worse, your mother. I have to initiate sex with you and because of this, I have waited for you to initiate it. And I waited. And waited. And waited. For months.

    You never tell me anything nice about me, without it sounding fake. You never say “I love you” but only “I love you too.” as an automatic response.

    Unfortunately, I have found someone who thinks I’m beautiful. He tells me this almost every day and because you never noticed, I’ve had sex with him. And the worst part was…I didn’t feel guilty at all. In fact, I can’t wait to have sex with him again.

    He has made me feel better about myself in the last month than you have in the last 10 years. So much so that, shockingly, the guys seem to be coming out of the wood works. It would kill you to know that 3 other men have recently told me how beautiful they think I am.

    I want to tell you what they say, so maybe you can appreciate me, too. Because I love you, not them. But it would just fly right over your head.

    So, I’ll continue to have sex with my friend, guilt free, until you figure out that I need more than a roommate. I never thought I would cheat on you. But then again, I never thought I’d be your roommate either.

    4 Responses to Desperate Housewife

    1. Anywho
      August 30, 2010 at 3:54 pm

      I have been here, I am very sorry to read your going through such a ruff time. I to had a roomate, and i too cheated. To my shock it hit home to him and he woke up, so keep it up honey and no matter what know your beautiful you dont ever need a man to tell you that!

    2. Chris
      August 30, 2010 at 5:09 pm

      The sparks have faded, he doesn’t really give shit about you, and you are cheating. How many more clues do you need to get a divorce?!

      You know it’s over yet you won’t end it. No sympathy for you.

    3. Ernesto
      August 30, 2010 at 5:10 pm

      Apparently, you don’t really love him. You may have married him, but if you cheat on him guilt-free it’s not love. Stop being self-righteous and divorce him already, because what you’re doing isn’t right. It’s much better to be honest and unhappy than dishonest and living a lie.

    4. Will
      August 30, 2010 at 6:39 pm

      If you require other people to tell you that you’re beautiful I don’t have much hope that you’ll be happy for long. Let your beauty come from within, just be yourself. And get a divorce. Cheating is just ugly.

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