Ok, whoever believes that idiot phrase is a moron and whoever LIVES that phrase is an asshole.
“Permission” means that you are getting someone’s agreement on a decision. If this decision affects that person’s life, then it is the RESPONSIBILITY of the person to ask for permission from their partner. At that time the two can hash it out. Say one wins, won loses, or both come to a mutual understanding at LEAST it is understood that there is a partnership.
“Forgiveness” infers that the person KNEW they were going against the other person’s wishes and just did it anyway – because the INDIVIDUAL’S goals were more important than the PARTNERSHIP’S goals. It also lends a lack of cajones because obviously if this person had any they would fight for their individual wants and make it clear that they’re getting it anyway.
So when someone “begs forgiveness”so blatantly how does do you maintain the partnership?
Honestly, I don’t have a clue. If any of you have gone through this I would certainly love your opinion.
The Other Half of the Partnership