• You are a shining star

    by  • April 23, 2010 • Frustration • 0 Comments

    You light up a room when you enter. Your smile causes a wave of smiles in return.  It’s so funny to me that you are so loved by everybody that you meet but you feel unworthy of it.

    On the flip side, you are constantly despairing of your unhappy marriage.  You have been married for over 3 decades and yet you’ve never been satisfied or felt truly loved.  How much longer can you go on with this?  How much longer do you want to?  You keep scheduling the big “talk” that you need to have with him. You keep planning your new life.  You dream of where you’ll go and what you’ll see and who you’ll meet.  But you don’t act.

    How is he supposed to know you’re unhappy unless you tell him?  To his face TELL him that you want something different…or you want out.

    All of us have been watching this person that we LOVE be miserable in a relationship and we have had our hands tied.  We have counseled you and held your hand, begged you to communicate to him and listened to you for too long.

    You NEED to take action.  Soon, your cries will fall on deaf ears.

    Oh, don’t get me wrong, we love you something fierce and always will.  But eventually we’ll stop listening.

    So DO something about it.  Make your life better.  Stop WAITING for someone else to do it for you.  It’s YOUR life.  It’s YOUR decision.  You DESERVE happiness.

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